My Hobby - CCM Donwload Link

Aku adalah orang yang pendiam diluar, tapi semua orang yang mengenalku (dengan baik) tahu bahwa aku sangat suka bicara… :D Hehehe… karena belakangan ini aku gak tau mau ngomong sama siapa… mending aku cuap-cuap di blog aja… 

Aku punya hobi koleksi lagu rohani, baik itu berbahasa Indonesia ataupun Inggris, tapi aku sukanya kebanyakan yang bahasa Inggris. Dan sekarang aku mulai tertarik dengan lagu rohani Korea dan Jepang.  Oh ya, kalo readers ada yang punya hobi kayak aku, pasti ngerti kesulitannya waktu pengen cari lagu rohani bahasa Korea atau Jepang, liriknya aja susah banget ditemukan (karena tulisan memang aneh--hehehe--aku gak ngerti tulisan Korea, kalo jepang taunya hanya tulisan hiragana-katakana), cari di 4shared.com aja, tinggal ketik kata kuncinya dan jangan lupa untuk login (bisa login langsung, atau pake akun SNS). Kemaren-kemaren aku pengen dengerin lagu-lagu Campus Worship Korea (kayak TWnya ID). Aku search di 4shared..eeh..ketemu… seneng banget akunya… 

Mungkin kalo sempat aku akan kasih link-link album rohani dari Barat, Korea dan Jepang...  Juga, mohon dukungannya dalam doa dan dana *Uuuppsss untuk ujian kali ini supaya bisa suksess ;) Ohh ya… aku juga pengen kenalan sama semua yang ada di dunia maya… hhhh.. kebanyakan,, kalo gitu sama yang kebetulan baca postinganku ini dan juga punya hobi yang sama… 

Postingan ini akan terus aku apdet untuk link-link lagu rohani… 

Campus Worship Vol. 4 Full Album
Campus Worship Vol 6 With Me Full Album 
Campus Worship Vol 7 His Kingdom Come Full Album 
 

Valent is Back

Helloooo…….. virtual world… :D   It’s been ages, huh???!!!!

Rasanya lama sekali blog ini aku tinggalkan terbengkalai karena kesibukan kuliah, de el el. Hari ini aku memutuskan untuk menulis lagi. Mungkin dengan menulis, aku bisa meningkatkan semangat belajar ku seperti dulu. Beberapa semester belakangan ini nilai ku menurun. Aku mencoba memakluminya karena ada begitu banyak bahan kuliah sementara waktu untuk mempelajarinya sangat sangat sedikit. Sejak memutuskan untuk pindah fakultas, aku seharusnya sudah mengerti konsekuensi yang harus aku tanggung. Bersyukur karena orang tuaku tidak memaksakan IP ku harus 3,5 – 4. Jadi dengan IP pas-pasan pun tidak masalah. J Hanya saja aku merasa agak kecewa dengan semua nilai itu. Tapi saat waktunya untuk belajar aku malah sibuk membaca sinopsis kdrama favorit, nonton, sms-an, bersih-bersih rumah, cuci baju, dst. 

Di salah satu blog yang aku baca, katanya kita harus rajin-rajin menulis… dan dari pada menulis di buku diary, aku memilih menulis diblog. Seperti kata pepatah “Your brain, you don’t use it. You lose it.” Xixixi maap kalo salah, tapi seperti itulah kira-kira kata-katanya. Aku memang sudah malas belajar dan membaca. Hmm…aku benar-benar butuh suntikan semangat…

Ini review IP ku dari semester 1 sampai semester 3 (sebenarnya kalo aku gak pindah mungkin aku udah semester 6 sekarang).

S 01 : 3,33                 S 02 : 3,17            S 03 : 3,10  

Di semester 3 yang lalu, aku mengoleksi nilai C, untuk pertama kalinya di kartu hasil studi  dalam sejarah perkuliahanku….  Awww… lebaaayyy….. Tapi itulah kenyataannya…. Semoga di semester 4 ini, IPku meningkat… AMIIIINNNNN….. Fighting!!!!!

Well..well… Akhirnya ku putuskan untuk melakukan sidak (inspeksi mendadak) di blog, ternyata sudah lumayan banyak yang mengunjungi blog aku ini… Aku jadi cemunguddd tingkat tinggi… hehehe..  Makasihh yaa udah berkunjung… Semoga bahan-bahan dan artikel di blog ini bermanfaat buat kalian semuanya dan aku harap para pembaca mencantumkan alamat blog ini  jika menyadur bahan-bahan tulisan atau artikel dari blog ini… :D

Best regards,

=Valent=

My Personality and Relationship

ISFJ Relationships

ISFJs place a great deal of importance on their personal relationships. They're generally very giving and loving people, who place the needs of others above their own. They sometimes have a problem with becoming overly emotionally needy, and with keeping their true feelings hidden from others. They take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships. ISFJs are extremely dependable, and put forth a lot of energy into keeping things running smoothly. They sometimes have difficulty saying "no" when asked to do something, and therefore may be taken for granted.

ISFJ Strengths

• Warm, friendly and affirming by nature
• Service-oriented, wanting to please others
• Good listeners
• Will put forth lots of effort to fulfill their duties and obligations
• Excellent organizational capabilities
• Good at taking care of practical matters and daily needs
• Usually good (albeit conservative) at handling money
• Take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships

 ISFJ Weaknesses

• Don't pay enough attention to their own needs
• May have difficulty branching out into new territory
• Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism
• Unlikely to express their needs, which may cause pent-up frustrations to build inside
• Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship
• Have difficulty moving on after the end of a relationship

 

 ISFJ as Lovers

"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May

ISFJs are committed to their relationships. They have very intense feelings, which is not immediately apparent to others because they tend to hold things inside themselves without expressing them, unless they have a strong reason to do so. Their intensity of feeling makes their intimate relationship their first priority in life, with the possible exception of God. They seek monogamous, lifelong commitments, and can be depended upon to be faithful and loyal to their mates once they have made a commitment.
ISFJs have a difficult time leaving a relationship which is bad, or accepting that a relationship is over. They tend to put all of the blame on their own shoulders, and wonder what they should have done to make things work out. If they have been loyal to their vows and have done their duties, they will be at a complete loss as to what went wrong, and will have great difficulty accepting the end. They are "true blue" lovers, and may even remain faithful to their deceased partners.
ISFJs tend to be very selfless, and to put the needs of others well before their own needs. This may backfire on them, if they get into a situation in which they are taken advantage of, and do not have a good outlet for their strong emotions. In this kind of situation, the ISFJ might bottle up their feelings inside them, and form strong resentments against others. The ISFJ should work on recognizing their own needs, and place some importance on meeting them, rather than always putting the needs of others first. After all, if you can't take care of yourself, how can take care of someone else?
Sexually, the ISFJ sees intimacy as a tangible way of strengthening their relationship bonds. They also see as something of a duty, and are likely to be more interested in serving their partner than in their own personal satisfaction. Although the ISFJ is not likely to be very wordy about expressing their love and affection, they're likely to do so through their deeds, and will deeply value their partner's responding affirmations.
The ISFJ is very warm and selfless. They'll put forth tremendous amounts of energy and time into doing what they feel is ther duty. What makes them feel best about themselves is when others show them their appreciation of the ISFJ. Consequently, the best gift that the partner of an ISFJ can give them is the expression of their love and appreciation.
ISFJs have difficulty with conflict situations, and would much prefer to just sweep things under the rug. Sometimes facing a conflict situation helps to resolve it, and the ISFJ should realize that the world will not end if they face the conflict, and express how they feel about it. A conflict situation is not necessarily a "problem" which needs to be gotten rid of, and it is also not necessarily the ISFJ's fault. It's a common problem for ISFJ's to not express their feelings until pushed to some limit, after which they explode in anger and say things which they later feel they shouldn't have said. These kinds of outbursts can be reduced by expressing their feelings on a more regular basis, rather than keeping them pent up inside.
In general, the ISFJ is usually a traditional, family-minded individual who places the comfort of their mates and families as their first priority in life. They're great for providing for everyday basic needs, and have a depth of caring which is very unusual, and not found in most types. They highly invested in the health of their relationships, and will work very hard to make things run smoothly. They are dependable and affectionate lovers.

 

 ISFJs as Parents 

"You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth...

Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;

For even as He loves the arrow that flies,

so He loves also the bow that is stable." -- Kahlil Gibran

Parenthood is seen as natural state and duty to the ISFJ. They are responsible about ensuring that their children have their practical needs met, and try to teach them the rules and observations of our society so that they grow into responsible and independent adults.
ISFJs may have difficulty administering punishment or discipline to their chldren, although most are able to overcome this discomfort because they feel it is their greater duty to instill their children with sound values. As individuals who value order and structure, they're likely to create well-defined boundaries and roles for their children to live within.
ISFJ parents have a very difficult time if their children grow into "problem" adults They tend to believe that it is their responsibility, and that they didn't work hard enough to raise their children well. This may or may not be the case, but usually it isn't. The ISFJ usually puts forth a lot of energy and effort, and doesn't give themselves credit for doing so.
In many ways, an ISFJ makes an ideal parent. Their children will not lack for structure, appropriate guidelines, or warmth and affection. Their children will remember and value the ISFJ parent for their warm natures and genuine efforts on their children's behalf. 

 ISFJs as Friends

Although the ISFJ is likely to place God and family above their friends in their priorities, they genuinely enjoy spending time with friends and colleagues. In fact, ISFJs usually feel a strong need to talk problems and issues over with people before making decisions on their actions. Some ISFJs like to discuss things over with their friends, rather than their families.
ISFJs enjoy spending time with most other types of people. The love to observe people's reactions and emotions in situations, and so enjoy being around diverse types of people. The ISFJ usually remains reserved around others, and does not open up very much. However, since they have a need to talk things over with others in order to make decisions, they do really need some close confidantes in their life. Their preference for these companions are other Sensing Feeling Judgers. They really enjoy and respect the company of Intuitive Feelers as well, but are not able to relate to them quite as well.
Friends of the ISFJ will value them for their warmth, dependability, depth of emotional awareness and understanding.

Source: https://www.personalitypage.com/

My Personality in MBTI

Tipe Kepribadian ISFJ

The Nurturer

ISFJ tertarik dalam menjaga ketertiban dan harmoni dalam setiap aspek kehidupan mereka. Mereka yang sabar dan teliti dalam menangani tanggung jawab mereka. Meskipun tenang, mereka adalah orang-berorientasi dan sangat perhatian. Mereka tidak hanya mengingat detail tentang orang lain, tetapi mereka mengamati dan menghormati perasaan orang lain. Teman dan keluarga cenderung menggambarkan mereka sebagai bijaksana dan dapat dipercaya.

ISFJ paling peduli dengan merawat orang dengan menjaga mereka tetap aman dan aman. Mereka adalah pengasuh sederhana yang tidak menuntut imbalan atau terima kasih atas upaya mereka. Mereka pada dasarnya penuh kasih dan dalam kesabaran lebih dalam ketika berurusan dengan orang-orang berkebutuhan khusus. Mungkin bagi orang yang belum mengenal ISFJ salah membaca mereka sebagai orang yang angkuh.

Hanya di kalangan teman dan keluarga mereka merasa tenang dan nyaman berbicara dengan bebas. ISFJ adalah orang-orang yang serius dengan etika kerja yang kuat, tidak mementingkan diri sendiri. Mereka percaya untuk menjadi cermat dan hemat. Mereka bekerja dengan baik dan menikmati merawat orang lain, mereka tidak suka memberi perintah. 

Ringkasan: Tenang, ramah, bertanggung jawab, dan teliti. Komitmen dalam memenuhi kewajibannya. Teliti, telaten dan akurat. Setia, perhatian, ingat dengan spesifik tentang orang-orang yang penting bagi mereka, peduli dengan perasaan orang lain. Upaya untuk menciptakan lingkungan yang tertib dan harmonis di tempat kerja dan di rumah. 

Kata kunci: Terorganisir, menjaga apa yang telah dicapai, membangun konsensus, orang yang punya keterampilan. 

Karir pekerjaan: Berhubungan dengan kesehatan, perawat, dokter, konsultan, pendeta/ustad, dan pelayanan sosial.

Sumber: http://psikologizone.com/

At Campus all day long #6.30 am - 6.30 pm

181013

Today is huge.... I am very tired since I was at campus all day long... and now I need to refresh and recharge my body, mind and soul... Still want to write today story, but I don't have much energy to write...

At least, thanks God for everything today.. My lab skill's done great...

How's my day???? 171113

Ingin memeluk dunia apa daya tangan terlalu kecil... :(
setelah lama vakum menulis diblog yang semakin sunyi aje...
aku putuskan untuk menulis blog lagi... bukan hanya sekedar copy paste materi kuliah yang sudah usang.. tapi juga sekedar curhat dan berbagi pengalaman sambil menghilangkan stress menghadapi tekanan di tempat kuliah...

hmmm...
17 Okt '13

hari ini ku awali dengan rasa ngantuk yang sangaaattt... :-O
karna semalam edit materi untuk kuliah hari ini... daaannn menelpon sampai larut malam... hahahhaha
entah kenapa ssemangatt ku mulai tumbuh di semester 3 ini... bukannya dari semester satu... *penyesalan muncul

saat tiba dikampus.... deeengggg.... tiba depan pintu ruang tutor.... disambut dengan sejumlah manusia tak dikenal berpakaian putih hitammm...
mmm... mungkin ada pleno hari ini??? *hati kecilku berkata...
setelah tanya menanya... ternyata mereka kakak tingkat yang ujian remedial hari ini... oowwwhhhh..... *good luck seniors...

tiba dalam ruangan... tidak ada seorang pun di dalam... hanya daku sendiri....
kemudian teman2 pun berdatangan.... *met pageee kawanddd
sampai akhirnya tutorial dimulaikan, uniknya modul untuk mahasiswa ketukar dengan modul untuk tutor alias dosen sodara-sodara.... hahahahha daan sialnya kita gak sempat liat jawaban-jawaban untuk kasus-kasus yang ada disana.... :D keburu di ambil pegawainya.... huffttt....

tidak lupa juga terjadi 2 kali penggantian kasus 1,,, fiiuuuhhh.... benar-benar sedikit kacau untuk pagi hari yang cerah... tapi syukurlah semuanya bisa berjalan lancar hingga akhirnya dilanjutkan dengan kuliah selama 45 menit... dan diakhhiri lagi dengann ISTIRAHAT yang paling mahasiswa idamkan setiap jari,,, hari...

ku putuskan untuk bermukim sementara dikost-an teman tetapi sebelumnya belanja makan siang untuk hari ini... *pertama kali beli makanan di kampus... heheh selama ini bawa rantangan dari rumah... wkwkwk *hemaattt coooyyy

ada sekitar 1,5 jam-an dikost-an orang,,,, ku kembali lagi ke kampus hijauuku... hari ini ada latihan suntik menyuntik antar mahasiswa dan dosen, antar dosen, antar mahasiswa.... ternyata salah info sodaraa... wkwkwk...yang benar antara mahasiswa dan manekin.... hohohoho...

aku yang absen yang paling pertama dikelas kecil,,,, maka aku pejuang pertama yang mempertaruhkan reputasiku siang tadi... hahah... diwarnai dengan kejadian yang memalukan dan menenggangkan bagiku.... *sambil keringetan dan sedikit gemetaran ....
sejujurnya pas latihan banyak salahnya... :( tapi aku berusaha melakukan apa yang bisa ku lakukan.. meski tidak sempurna... hingga akhirnya semuanya berakhir dengan kelegaan yang luar biasa... dan dilanjutkan dengan new perfomers....

beberapa saat kemudian aku memutuskan untuk latihan memasang tourniquet bersama teman... sebut aja.. stevaa... selanjutnya latihan nyuntikk.... dan berakhir dengan jari tangan kiri yang diwarnai setitik darah... uppsss.. tidak sengaja... tapi sakitt jugaa dan malu karena dibelakangku ada dosen... *hihihiihi...

temen ku yg namanya Lee *biar keren githuu mulai melancarkan aksinya... eehhh... jarumnya kemungkinan gak steril,,, hati-hati HIV kamuuu... haadddeeehhh... ni orang... suka aja manfaatin suasana, situasi dan kondisi.... aku rada kemakan omongannya jugaa seehh,,, tapi sudahlah lupaaakkaan saja... aku yakin jarumnya steril kok... orang aku yang beli sendiri, baru dibuka pulaa... singkat cerita yang selesai praktik diusir oleh dosen... mmm.. bukann... di suruh pulang oleh dosen... *thankkkks dokk.. tau aja yang aku mau... #genittt... oohhh tidaakk bisssaa... dosen cewe neehhh... saya masih suka lawan jenis sodaraa...

sssskkkkkkkkkkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiippppppppppp............


okehh... setelah di skip.. dilanjutkan dengan scene saat saya naik angkot... saat kakiku menginjak angkot, musiknya pelan... daaan saat saya belum aja 30 detik mengambil posisi weenaak di seat paling belakang sonooo.... jeeejejejejejeeennnnngggg.... duaaarr...duaarrrr.... jiiingg... janngg...jiiinngg....doooonnggg..ddooonnggg.... #berisik tingkat dewaa... arrrgghhhh.... mau pecah ni telingaa...
1...2...3.... langsung turuunn dari angkot.... kasiiaan deh sopirnya... :P kehilangan 3rb perak...

prosesi menunggu angkot kembali dilakukan.... setelah menemukan yang pas di hatii *harusss.. dan menaikinya... sekitar 30 menit berlalu dan tiba di *am proud to call it village in d city... biar kerenn dikitlahh... ku teruskan perjalanan dengan DB 11 hingga tiba di depan rumah yang dilanjutkan dengan makan minum dan online hingga kini....
 meski tubuh ini sudah lelah, aku memilih untuk googling, surfing, blogging, etc...

INI CERITAKU...APA CERITAMU????? :D:D

hopefuly everythings gonna be alright... fighting...!!!!